About
Have you watched the movie Hitch? The one with Will Smith as the
"Love Doctor?" Wait, I am not about to say I am that guy. In fact far
from it. For a start I have never been paid for this; never asked to be. Yet I
have always been that guy who has the solutions for all relationship
conundrums. The difference I have always had with everyone else is my ability
to not only always keep an objective point of view, but to always tell it to
all who want to hear it. My closest friends call me when they want to hear the
ugly truth about their relationships, they do not always appreciate it though.
In some ways it is a burden, I am always able to tell when a
relationship is over, long before couples stop seeing each other. This is not
something you want to tell someone. People do not want to hear that it is over,
even when it is. If you want to know what is wrong with your relationship, you
have come to the right place. If you want to know how you can enhance or
develop your relationship, you have come to the right place. And if you have
any questions about these relationships, which is not already covered in our F.A.Q. you have come to the right place.
I have always been fascinated by relationships, even before I had my
first one at the age of 10. Not many people can say this, but I have been
through most phases twice. All my closest friends have always been older than
me, which meant that I started dating when they were dating. As a result I had
to develop skills that would help me to date within these circles. What you may
find very amusing is the fact that I am not the prettiest of men. I am not
undesirable, but neither am I what you could call a "first-draft" pick.
However I was always that guy you look at and wonder how he does it. Most of my
friends were much better looking than me, wealthier, so I had no ammunition, so
to speak. Yet I always won. The key was always in the fact that I was quick to
identify what mattered. I was quick to identify my skills and focused on those,
not on the areas I knew I fell short of the mark.
Why I don't date
After over 65 relationships, something has to change. For one I have
matured as a man. I no longer seek the same things that I used to look for in a
woman, and funny enough, most women are no longer as appealing as they used to
be. I have reached a point where I want someone to build a life with and not
just to spend some time with. Suddenly most people seem to just want to play. I have had all the fun that any reasonable man can ever want. All I want now is a mother for my children (p.s. I don't YET have kids). I want someone to actually grow grey with.
Why the site?
A few years ago I started writing a book called, “Dating Dynamics”. It never quite got completed, my views of the world have been evolving along the way, which made it harder to build up on material. Dating Dynamics was quite a hit in my circles. This is a way to share this material and also to make sure it reaches the ones who really need it. Let’s talk, if you want to chat drop me a message via the ask me form. While writing my books I have spent years studying relationship patterns and giving counseling to friends and family. I had always been the go-to guy for all relationship advice, but that has extended beyond my own circles. You will get Dating Dynamics here absolutely free of cost. We will converse and learn from one another.
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