Loving her
How to show her love
There is a lot of material on what women can do to please men. How to
dress for your man. How to make him happy. How to have sex with him and all
sorts of things. Growing up, I never really felt that I needed to do anything
in my life to please women. Today most men only please women with the intention
of getting sex in return. It is widely acceptable, but not really spoken. Until
you can pure love to a woman, you are not a man. I feel I became a men, when I
finally opened up and loved someone else. I have redefined the word love. Love
for me is "giving everything, and expecting nothing back in return".
If you love in order to be loved, then that is not love, you're trading. Love
is not a trade, it's a sacrifice. I am not saying that everyone is easy to
love. It is not meant to be easy, you are an individual, and self is your main
focus. To be able to shift that focus from self to another person is not
something to be taken lightly. Here are a few ways to love her
Let her know
If your
words are the only way that she knows you love her, you have got to check
yourself. You are falling short. Your words should come as an affirmations of
actions that already show that you love her. When you say you love her, it
should not be a surprise, she should already know it. Your actions should bear
testimony of this love.
2. Invest in her
This is
very simple but very important. If you see a future with her, invest in her.
When you invest in her, you are investing in your future. You are investing in
the mother of your kids. You are investing in your family. If you do not
want to invest in her, then please don’t waste her time. Leave her. When I say “invest”,
I don’t necessarily mean financially. Some women just need some encouragement that
they did not get elsewhere. She could be better if she knew that she could be.
Invest your time in listening to her. Women need that release. To be able to
pour their hearts out is therapeutic.
3. Believe in her
The only
woman I ever wanted to marry was the one woman I truly believed in. For other
reasons, it did not work out. My belief in her propelled her. Your belief in
your woman will propel her. If you believe in her, it will make it easier for
you to invest in her. I have found in my experience most women are hurt. They
are carrying a lot of pain in their hearts. Pain from parents and past
relationships. She needs to know that you believe in her. As a keen business
person, I have always been excited by the prospect of my woman being in
business. If she has great ideas, help her build them. If the ideas are not as
good, encourage her and help her improve those ideas. Do not just speak her
down.
There are
so many ways to love. These are just a few of the ways. How do you show you
love? Drop a comment below. If you have questions, use
our ask me page.
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