F.A.Q.

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I am often asked a lot of questions about relationships. Some I answer, some I just realize the person knows the answer but does not want to accept it. If you send a great question, which may help others, it'll be answered and added to this page.


Relationships Frequently asked questions


Q: Is he/she cheating?

A: He may or may not be cheating, but the fact that you are suspecting this reveals a problem in your relationship. Deal with it. You need to identify why it is that you think he/she is cheating before it outgrows the strength of your relationship.

Q2: Should I introduce him/her to my family

A: There are reasons to do this and reasons to not do it. You have to decide for yourself. I personally never introduce anyone to family because I know if it does not last, it puts all of us in a tough position. My mother might like her even after we break up. That's too awkward.


Q3: How do I break up with him, nicely?

A: Truth is king. Don't add too much content to it. Most people hate those speeches that come at the end of relationships. Please do not start telling them how they are such an amazing person and what not. You are breaking up with them, simply tell them why (if they care to know), if not just end it at its over. I always find that it is best to not be disrespectful or demeaning about it, you may need them some day.

Q4: Should I tell him/her I love him

A: KNOW YOUR MAN/WOMAN!! If they are a total moron, you may want to hold back the sentiments. It may just get to their heads (it used to get to my head). At the end of the day, if you can't express your love to them, you should not be with them in the first place. It may take time, but make sure that you both can freely express these feeling, otherwise you are wasting each other's time.